Look for patterns over time
Occasional distractibility, social difficulty or strong preferences are common. Assessment becomes more relevant when patterns are persistent, began during development and have a meaningful impact on learning, relationships, home life or wellbeing.
Compare settings carefully
Home and school can look very different. Structure, sensory demand, interests, masking and adult support can all change what other people observe. Differences between settings are information to understand, not a reason to dismiss concerns automatically.
Ask what else could explain the difficulties
Sleep, anxiety, language or learning needs, trauma, physical health and environmental stress can overlap with ADHD or autism presentations. They can also co occur, which is why a broad developmental assessment matters.
Speak with school or relevant professionals
Teacher and SENCO observations can add useful context. A GP, health visitor, school or other professional may also explain local NHS referral routes and support available while waiting.
Choose the assessment question deliberately
If both ADHD and autism are reasonable possibilities, ask whether a combined pathway is appropriate. The aim is not to collect labels but to reach an explanation that improves understanding and support.
Common questions
Should I wait for school to suggest assessment?
No. Parents can raise concerns themselves. School information is useful, but it is not the only route to recognising a need for assessment.
Can a child have both ADHD and autism?
Yes. The conditions can co occur, and assessment should consider both when clinically indicated.
Do we need a diagnosis before asking school for help?
Not always. Education support should consider a child’s needs, although specific processes and legal entitlements vary.
Related services and guides
Primary and public sources
Sources checked 2 September 2026. Guidance and public pathways can change.
- NHS: ADHD in children and young people
- NHS: Autism assessments
- NICE: ADHD diagnosis and management (NG87)
- NICE: Autism in under 19s: recognition, referral and diagnosis (CG128)
- GOV.UK: Disability rights in education
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